A power couple is made of a king and a queen. So how can you treat your husband like a king?
You don’t treat your husband like a king by being his servant. Neither by being his advisor.
So what’s your role, then?
In this article, you’ll find that out and much more. Uncover what it means for your husband to feel like a king. And why it has to do with you becoming the empowering, irresistible woman of his dreams.
That’s right, making your husband feel like a king isn’t just about what he experiences. It’s also about who you are as a wife and as a woman. Want to know the secrets to making your man feel strong and confident like a king who wants to be your hero? Read on to find out.
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How Can I Treat My Husband Better?
You want a husband who’s:
- Cherishing you
The fastest and easiest way to get a husband like this is to change your own behavior. The more he feels that you respect and love him, the more likely he’s going to treat you better. It’s a positive spiral.
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A Cherished Wife treats her man like a king.– Natasha & Jachym Jerie
Treat Your Husband Like a King
Isn’t that sexist?
You don’t want to end up as his servant after all.
Yes, we agree.
A relationship is about mutual respect. And when you start treating your husband like a king, you’re bringing out the best in you and him. We’re not advocating to submit to your husband’s every whim. That is dangerous and foolish.
Instead, we are helping you to change your view of your husband and with it your attitude towards him. That’s why we chose the word ‘King’ because it carries with it a level of respect and nobility that most relationships lack. Here’s an article for you that shows you how you can show respect to your husband.
Your Husband Needs to Feel Like a King
If there’s one thing a man needs, it’s respect.
Many men grew up in a competitive environment. The amount of women a man attracts is often related to his status. That’s why he naturally wants to have respect because it’s showing him that he’s good enough.
That’s why your husband needs to feel like a king. A king is someone who:
- Has authority
- Is respected
- Has a high status in society
- People rely on
- Is the protector of his kingdom
- Carries great responsibility
Do you see why your husband might want to feel like a king? These are all qualities that a good man embodies. The more you treat him like he’s:
- No good
- Someone you can’t trust
- Someone you need to control
The more he becomes exactly like that. That’s why the fastest way to turn things around starts with you.
In our The Cherished Wife Program we help you make the switch from being controlling to becoming irresistible. You see, being controlling isn’t something your husband is attracted to; it reminds him of his mother. Instead, what he loves is a woman who sees his strength and welcomes him into her world.
Making this transition can be difficult. For many, it’s almost impossible if they try it by themselves. That’s why we created a blueprint for you so that you can become the goddess awaiting to be unleashed. Are you ready for it?
Now that we know why you would want to treat your husband like a king, let’s find out how to do it. And by the way, if you are already saying to yourself: ‘I want to treat my man like a king,’ good on you! You’re on the right track.
You either choose love or you choose fear, you can’t choose both. Which one do you choose?– Natasha & Jachym Jerie
How to Treat Your Husband Like a King
It happens to all of us…
We think our spouse is useless.
“If only he’d be more masculine.”
“He really can’t get anything right.”
“Why do I have to tell him everything 20 times?!”
These are the thoughts that often come when we stop seeing our man as competent, powerful and someone who deserves to be treated like a king. How do you not fall into this trap anymore? We’ll cover that further down the line, first let’s give you some practical examples of how you can make your husband feel special.
After all, isn’t a king someone who is seen as special?
1. Make Your Husband Feel Needed
We all want it:
To feel needed. Why? Because it often evokes a feeling of being valued. When I am needed, I have a purpose. My skills are valued and appreciated. If you are an avid reader of this blog, you’ll know that identifying ourselves with these things is a mistake. But most people identify themselves with these, which is why it’s good to respect that.
How can you make your husband feel needed?
Simple: Stop trying to do it all by yourself. Find the skills he’s really good at and ask for his help (even if you could do it yourself). Let’s say, your husband is great with finances and you struggle with it: ask him to advise you on financial matters.
Or, he’s really strong: Ask him to help you with the heavy stuff in the household.
Here’s an example of how you can use it:
Honey, I can’t do some of the housework, it’s too much for me. My body aches afterwards. I’d love it if you could help me lift the heavy things off the floor. I’ve always admired your physical strength.
Honey, let me know when you get some time, I need your advice on some financial matters. You have a better knack for it than me and I want to hear what you think about it.
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An Exceptional Relationship takes an exceptional commitment.– Natasha & Jachym Jerie
2. Make Your Husband Feel Special
How do I make my husband feel like a king?
By treating him like he’s special.
When you first met, he WAS special. You couldn’t get enough of him and you probably thought he’s the perfect match. But then routine started kicking in. What you thought was endearing started to become annoying.
Before you knew it, you started taking him for granted. He’s not special anymore in your day-to-day routines. If anything, you wish he’d do more of something like:
- Show more affection
- Have more time for you
- Plan dates for you
- Be more romantic
- Work less
- Be with his buddies less
You probably have an endless list of things you’d like to be different about your husband. He probably has his own list. That’s why you need to turn things around.
By starting to date him again.
Here’s the thing: He could die or disappear any minute. Really reflect on that. It’s a shock because when we take things for granted, we lose sight that we don’t have each other forever. He will go away.
So what do you want to do today, to show him that you really love him and that he means the world to you?
Go and do that. Live life with the end in mind, and you’ll treat your husband special. It’s one of the keys to know how to treat your husband like a king.
If you’re struggling with this one, don’t worry, we got you covered. In our The Cherished Wife Program we help you to naturally change how you view your husband. This change in perspective changes your behavior, which then turns on his own dating desire. He wants to be your hero and he wants to fulfill your desires, you just have to know how to activate these things.
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3. Make Your Man Feel Wanted
Men want to feel desired, too
It feels amazing for your man when you really want him. This can come in various forms like:
- You being the one who initiates sex
- Complimenting him on his appearance
- Being totally into the lovemaking and getting a lot of pleasure from it
Your man will feel like a king when you show him that all you care about in this moment is him. You want him and you love it. How do you get to a place like this?
Here’s a hint: The biggest sex organ we have is our brain.
The more you realize that sex starts in your mind, the more you get how important it is to view your man in a positive light. In The Cherished Wife Program we help you with changing your view naturally. We give you guided meditations that reconnect you to your feminine essence.
It’s this feminine essence that is naturally erotic and it’s also the very essence that draws out the masculine in your man. These two together are what creates the sexual attraction between the two of you.
Being masculine isn’t toxic. It’s needed to complement the feminine.– Jachym Jerie
4. Make Your Husband Feel Like a Man Again
With what’s been happening in the world lately, you might think that it’s bad to be a man.
Masculinity is apparently toxic and there are plenty of women who either hold a negative view towards men or even want to get rid of them in their life.
These views simply divide the genders further and make a healthy relationship between a man and a woman impossible. What has this got to do with your question ‘how do I treat my man like a king’?
You want your man to know that:
- It’s great that he is a man
- You appreciate him as a man
- You want him to embrace his masculinity
Because of the current climate in politics and entertainment, men have become hesitant about how they relate to women. They think:
- Am I going to be viewed as sexist?
- Am I treating her right?
- Maybe she’ll be offended
That’s why your role is so vital. He needs to know that his strength is appreciated. He needs to know that you want him to lead. He needs to know that you love it when he steps up and behaves like a true king and not like a whipped little boy.
This is exactly what we show you in our premium coaching program The Cherished Wife. You don’t have to guess how you can turn things around. You are guided by us to help you restore the natural dynamics of feminine and masculine energies. That’s what makes your relationship:
- Be filled with passion and intimacy
- A place of deep connection
- Deeply rewarding
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In the next section, we want to show you how you can change your behavior so that your husband gains the confidence of a man who’s secure in himself and lets go of the boy in him.
How to Show My Husband He Is My King
It’s great to treat him well.
But what about you?
How can you draw out the king in him?
That’s why we have this section. It’s one thing to treat your man like a king (through your actions). It’s another to show your husband that he is your king (by dropping certain behavior and learning new attitudes).
Here’s how you can do it:
5. Get Rid of Negative Behavior
There’s little chance of a relationship thriving if you keep negative behavior in place. Let’s start with communication. Here’s what you need to stop:
- Being defensive
All of these communication patterns are rooted in fear. Instead, you want to orient your entire way of relating towards love. Other negative behavioral patterns are:
- Being controlling
- Punishing your husband
- Holding things against him
- Viewing him in a negative light
- Not respecting yourself
These all need to go because they’re also rooted in fear. Why is fear bad? Because it doesn’t allow love to flow through your relationship. Instead, it slowly suffocates it.
In our premium coaching program The Cherished Wife we help you make the shift from choosing fear to choosing love. It is the most important shift you can make for your life and your relationship. It’s the one thing that will shift many of the difficult problems you have.
6. Change How You View Him
“How do I show my husband he’s my king?”
By viewing him as one.
How you see your husband determines your behavior towards him. If you see him as useless, you’ll treat him exactly as that. If you view him as powerful, strong and capable, you’ll treat him that way.
Because changing your view has a lot of leverage to create lasting and sustainable change that’s not just based on trying to keep up certain behaviors. And we like to create this kind of change in people’s lives. After all, we’re here to enjoy our lives and the relationships that come with it and not turn everything into a self-improvement project.
I guess the answer to your question ‘how do you treat a man like a king? is: by seeing him as a king. But of course, there’s more to it as well.
A Cherished Wife surrenders to love.– Natasha Koo
7. Accept His Lead
A king leads.
That’s why he’s king.
There’s nothing else that shows that you’ve embraced your man as a king quite as much as letting him lead. Does this mean that you should lose your voice?
Does it mean that you have to do everything he says?
It means that you trust him to:
- Be there for you
- Take care of you
- Create a desirable life
- Protect you
For this to happen, he needs you to let him lead. But a good leader always listens to the one he’s leading. Just because he’s leading you, doesn’t mean that you get left out of the picture. The opposite is true:
You become more of the centerpiece of the picture.
Because if he wants to lead you, he has to understand you. A leader cares about the ones he’s leading more than he cares about himself. But he won’t be that kind of leader if you keep up the negative behavior that we’ve outlined above. He needs to feel your trust, openness and surrender to love (Note that we chose the word ‘love’ and not ‘him’ for a reason. We don’t believe surrendering to your husband is always wise).
8. Fulfill His Desires
If you want your husband to feel like a king, you want to fulfill what he desires.
Because it shows him that you care for him. That what he wants also matters to you. Not because it’s important to you, but because he’s important to you. Now, you do need to be discerning here:
- Do not fulfill his addictions.
- Do not tolerate things that cross your boundaries
- Check with yourself if his desire is bringing you closer to love or fear
The more you are aligned towards love, the clearer it becomes for you as to what kind of desires you want to fulfill and which ones you don’t. Here’s a little bit more help if you want to fulfill your husband’s needs.
We are here to help powerful women create powerful marriages. We are not here to create doormats.
Our Cherished Wife Program is about being uplifted by your man, and it’s not about being used. We want you to have your dream-come-true marriage. We help you bring that vision into your reality. You can have all the passion, love, connection you want!
A Cherished Wife gives herself to her husband, instead of trying to control him.– Jachym Jerie
9. Serve Him
A queen serves her king.
A king serves his kingdom and his queen. It’s that straightforward. If you are just looking out for yourself, you’ll hurt your relationship. Instead, you want to embrace that you need your husband just like he needs you.
We don’t mean this in an unhealthy way; we mean it in a productive way. With your husband in your life, your life is better for both of you. It can only be this way if you start adopting an attitude of service towards him.
This doesn’t mean that you do everything in the household. It might actually mean that you do less in the household.
Why is that?
Because doing everything in the household can be exhausting. When you’re exhausted, you’re not your best self. You won’t be in the mood to do all the other things we’ve outlined in this article. Instead, you just want to watch some TV and go to bed.
Is that being of service to your relationship? No. It’s hurting your relationship. What would be of service is to be honest and say ‘I can’t do this anymore.’ It’s to let your husband know and let your husband step in as a king to solve the problem with you.
Do you see how treating your husband like a king is actually a good thing? Do you see how it empowers both you and your husband?
A guarded heart can only allow as much love in as the guards allow.– Natasha & Jachym Jerie
10. Let Your Guards Down
We’ve all been there:
Broken-hearted, disappointed, disillusioned and hurt.
It’s part of life.
Most of us close our hearts. We try to protect ourselves from further hurt. But it’s this very reaction that prevents the wound from proper healing. Instead, you want to slowly drop your guard. You are most attractive to your man when you are completely and utterly open.
You can’t do that if you keep holding on to old wounds.
That’s why we have made healing your heart a huge part of The Cherished Wife Program. It’s this inner transformation that will transform your marriage for good. You see, the negative behavioral patterns have a hold on you because the fear is hooking into these old wounds.
You think you have to control your husband because you’ve been let down before. It looks so plausible and believable. But all it does is hurt you further and drive your man away. Your fears are a false friend.
But when you heal yourself, the fears have nothing to hook into anymore. That’s when you just drop them because they stop making sense to you. Instead, you’ll naturally embrace more empowering patterns. You naturally will want to treat your husband like a king.
Do you see how it all plays together?
We also saw that, and we created a blueprint for you so you don’t have to embark on this journey yourself. We are here for you to dive deeply into yourself and bring out this delicious, beautiful, feminine goddess that’s slumbering within you. If you want to serve her, head over here and join us now!
Your husband won’t feel like a king until you let your goddess out. If you’re serious about these questions:
- How do I make my husband feel like a king?
- How do I treat my husband like a king?
And you truly embrace the statement: I want to treat my man like a king, then the Cherished Wife Program is for you.
If treating a husband like a king was easy, most women would already be doing it. But that’s not the case at all.
A lot of wives find themselves in power struggles with their husbands. What might have started off as a meaningful partnership starts to deteriorate into a tug-of-war of what I want vs. what you want and doing things my way vs. your way.
A truly Exceptional Relationship doesn’t have this type of dysfunctional dynamic. Instead, you are building each other up and bringing out the best in each other.
As you’ve learned in this article, lifting your man up to be your king requires vulnerability and strength from you too. It demands a deep trust and letting go. If you do it right, it can bring you two so much closer together and increase the intimacy in your relationship tenfold.
The choice is yours. Keep up the way that you’ve always interacted with one another or level-up so that you are the power couple of your dreams.
You are the king and queen.
You just have to see it, live it and be it.